Margo and Tashira @PoliticsFashion discuss the paradox of being "too much" in a number of ways seemingly exclusive to women & femmes. Society tells us that we need to be pretty (but we can't be too focused on our appearance), we need to be smart (but not too smart), we need to be good parents, but if we put "too much" effort into them then we're "too involved."Buy the eJournal "Defining Love at a Big Age"  here: https://www.justuspodcast.com/product...Sign up for our newsletter, here: https://justuspod.myflodesk.com/subsc...Shop our Osea faves: https://oseamalibu.com/?rfsn=7130851.... and use code JUSTUS10 to save 10%Get convenient and affordable therapy with Betterhelp: https://betterhelp.com/justuspodcastIf our conversation resonated with you, then consider continuing the conversation in our NEW private community! Join the justUS League here, https://justus-podcast.mn.co/share/M7... Get your justUS swag here: https://www.justuspodcast.com/#in-fee...Follow Us on Instagram:@justus_pod@margo.lindauer@politicsandfshn